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·我是怎樣爲《靜水流深》找到英文出版社的?How Did I Find an English Lang
·曾錚學英文心得:必殺技只兩招
·曾錚演示法輪功第五套功法-神通加持法
·真材實料的造假
·曾錚學英文心得之二:方法、苦功及收穫
·女兒語錄(19)Quote of My Daughter(19)
·髒與淨的相對論 & 我是如何做到百毒不侵的?
·【十六年前的今天 】「信師信法」
·歡迎習主席有錢拿 Payment Promised for Crowd who Welcome Xi Jinping
·【曾錚快評】通知=統治?Notifying=Ruling?
·女兒語錄(20)Quote of My Daughter(20)
·十七年來的「糊塗帳」”Mysterious” Arrest
·一封差點讓我丟命的信
·正向思維又一例證
·憑什麼老是少數人挺身而出?
·曾錚的圖片故事(10)Jennifer’s Photo Stories (10)
·讀史筆記:重讀歷史之必要·帝王之言之行·鄉愁
·【對話網友】關於寫作與演講技巧
·評《三生三世十里桃花》
·評《三生三世十里桃花》续
·「繞樑三月」的美食經歷——在紐約
·Taking on the Chinese Authorities
·「三百六十行 行行出狀元」“Every Trade Has Its Master”
·Witnessing History: one woman’s fight for freedom and Falun Gong
·與《靜水流深》之恩人的聚會
·An Ordinary, But Extremely Extraordinary, Chinese-Style Mother
·Witnessing History Should be Mandator Reading
·一份被香港媒體封殺的採訪
·惡之火與善之心
·曾錚的圖片故事(11)Jennifer’s Photo Stories (11)
·莊稼地裏的「祕密通道」Banned Books Mean Everything
·My Thoughts on Yang Shuping’s “Fresh Air” Speech at the University
·楊舒平「新鮮空氣」引發的「血案」與兩名北大外教的故事
·我也看見過UFO飛碟 I’ve also Seen a UFO
· 我看「巴黎協定」
· A Better Way to "Re-enter" Paris Accord
·【Mini Novel】 A Red Hairpin【微小說】 紅色的髮夾
·Quote of My Daughter ( 1)
·評熱門新片《神力女超人(Wonder Woman)》
·Why Do We Need a “Wonder Woman” Today?
·【讀史筆記之二】未讀史實 先樹史觀
·【讀史筆記之三】「文化」正解
·【讀史筆記之四】「中國」「新」知與走向未來
·【讀史筆記之六】神話即歷史&人、地球與宇宙
·曾錚的圖片故事(16)Jennifer’s Photo Stories (16)
·The Story of My Father
·【讀史筆記之七】造人的傳說與人真正生命的來源
·【讀史筆記之八】「三皇開文明」及神傳文化
·曾錚的圖片故事(17)
·【讀史筆記之九】人類所經歷兩個截然不同的過程
·Jennifer’s Photo Stories (18)曾錚的圖片故事(18)
·【讀史筆記之十】我之易學「研究」誤區:離道越遠越難很回返
·一道簡單而可怕的數學題
·【讀史筆記之十一】中醫的奧祕與實
·二十年前的今天
·【讀史筆記之十二】跳出局部看整體
·【讀史筆記之十三】巨细庞大的工程
·【讀史筆記之十四】德化天下與找尋真相
·Another Date to Celebrate! Plus Three "Trivial" Things That Really Sho
·在黑暗無望的濁世中 看見希望的金光
·曾錚的圖片故事(19)兔子與毛衣- 兔子與毛衣
·和《好兄弟,我哭了!》
· 讓人打寒顫的通知Chilling Notification
·三篇互相矛盾的报导詮釋何爲「厚顏無恥」
·A State of Torture
·Charles Hugo's Laughters
·虞超的笑聲
·兩張表情迥異的臉
·十六歲時的傷感
·三十歲的新生命
·Is Reunification of South and North Korea an Option for the Chinese Co
·與美國人做「生意」 Doing "Business" with Americans
·Jennifer's Photo Stories (25) 曾錚的圖片故事(25)
·愚蠢的我 令人神經錯亂的科技 Stupid Me & Terrifying Technology
·全球訴江(1) 「畢業旅行」陡吃官司
·「別跟特朗普總統打交道」?我焉能枉擔此虛名!
·神韻音樂: 聽過才有的膚淺認識
·My Humble Understanding of Shen Yun Music
·An Open Letter to President Trump regarding His Visit to China
·人消費
·鄉愁 Homesickness
·難民申請艱辛路 The Harsh Road of Asylum Seeking
·A Mature Person 內心成熟之人
·《靜水流深》中文版再版 亞馬遜網站全球發售
·《靜水流深》再版序:靜水流深 穿破暗夜
·世界是精神的物化
·《靜水流深》再版自序
·中共國取消主席任期限制 有啥好驚慌的?My Quick Thoughts on China's Prop
·「適者生存」在美國 One of the Reasons Why I Should Live in America
·Seeking the Way 步虛歌
·Troubles 麻煩
·Why Do I Write This Book?
·The Soul of My Poetry 文心
·The Mystical Udumbara 優曇婆羅花
·「情人眼裏出西施」曾(錚)解 A Beauty is Created by a Lover's Eyes
·以對——和元曦《無言》
·「俠女」隨想 The Spirit of a Female Knight
·「俠女」隨想 The Spirit of a Female Knight
·A Song from Tibet 藏歌
·Elegy 大提琴之《殤》
·A Snowy Day in Spring 春雪有懷
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不動聲色

   After practicing Falun Dafa for many years, I seem to be able to stay calm and unmoved most of the time. Whatever happens, there won’t be drastic ups and downs with my emotion or mood. So I had been believing that I wouldn’t be moved by outside factors anymore.
   
   修煉許多年以後,確實在大部分時候能夠做到「不動聲色」了。再大的事情發生,也能保持相對的平靜狀態,情緒上不會大起大落、大喜大悲。然後就以爲,自己不會被情緒帶動,也不會爲外界或他人所左右了。
   
   However, an incident a few days ago made me realize that this was not the case. When what I really care, really want to achieve, or when my ego at the deepest level are involved or at stake, I can still be moved.


   然而前幾天發生的一件事讓我意識到,當有涉及到自己非常在意、自以爲非常重要,或關乎到很深的自我意識、自我存在價值的事情時,雖然表面上仍能做到「不動聲色」、「不爲所動」,但實際上,在很深的地方,在被表面上的平靜所掩蓋、所壓制的地方,我仍然是有情緒的。
   
   What’s worse is, I would be deceived by my surface “calmness” into believing that the decisions I made when I was “calm” were rational and correct; and that my purpose was only to get important things done.
   
   更可怕的是,自己會被自己平面的「不動聲色」所欺騙、所蒙蔽,以爲自己在此狀態下做的決定、做出的事情是理智的、正確的,是爲了達成重要的目標的。
   
   However, when negative consequences showed up, I started to realized that I had been deceived by myself. The so-called “rational” decisions were actually induced by my emotions, such as dissatisfaction, impatience, angry toward somebody, or unwillingness to wait any longer, etc. All these emotions had negative elements inside them.
   
   事情過後,當負面的結果顯現時,仔細回想,才發現自己被自己騙了。那所謂的「理性」思考和決定,實際上是情緒帶動下發生的,是出於某種情緒才去這樣做的,而這情緒卻是負面的,比如對別人不滿、不耐煩、失去耐心、不想再等待,等等。
   
   Decisions made under these kinds of emotions were supposedly for the purpose of getting things done or achieving the goal quicker. But in reality, they were made for the purpose of hurting, punishing or even shaming the person that I was angry at.
   
   在這種情緒支配下做的決定,表面看是爲了推進事情的發展,或儘快達成某目標,實際上帶有情緒發泄的成分,甚至潛意識裏想「報復」或「懲罰」那個我不滿的人,或給他點顏色、「厲害」瞧瞧,或讓他感到羞愧……
   
   Exactly because both those emotions and motives were very negative, the outcome of things would definitely be negative.
   
   因爲這些情緒是負面的,這些隱藏很深的動機從某種意義上講甚至是「惡毒」的,事情的結果和效果當然不會好。
   
   So the lesson to learn is, don’t be deceived by the surface level “calmness”. When dealing with issues or things involving other people, I must adopt completely positive ways and methods. Even if sometimes other people may seem to be at fault, I still need to treat them benevolently, without harboring any negative emotions or motives in my mind or heart.
   
   教訓是:以後,一定要仔細查找自己的情緒和動機,不要被表面的「平靜」所欺騙,在處理問題、特別當這問題會牽扯到別人時,一定要用完全正面的方法和方式,就算表面上是別人「不對」,自己的處理方式中也一定不能帶有任何負面的成分或情緒。
   
   Only by considering others at all times and under all circumstances, can I have the wisdom to find out a way to deal with things so that I can push forward this matter forward without harming or hurting others.
   
   真正能做到事事考慮別人、考慮別人的感受時,才能有這智慧,找到既能推進事情、又不傷害別人的作法吧!
   

此文于2018年12月16日做了修改
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