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生命禅院
·人情不是债,急时把锅卖。--《天启篇》之九十三
·珍惜自由!--《天启篇》之九十四
·生命签证--《天启篇》之九十五
·然后呢?--《天启篇》之九十六
·喝了醋喷不出酒气。--《天启篇》之九十七
·走出心灵的埃及。--《天启篇》之九十八
·万象生心灵,心灵超万象。--《天启篇》之九十九
·第二巢蜜蜂搬家的启示--《天启篇》
·家庭不是社会的细胞
·绞杀榕的启示--《天启篇》
·谨防心灵的阴暗角落——《天启篇》
·绝美的事物在等待绝美的生命去享受
·零态杯子的启示——《天启篇》
·李子酸甜的启示
·麻将 浑沌与中华文化--《天启篇》
·品质不配 挥泪更换
·情爱性色与自然之道
·石墨和金刚石结构给我们的启示
·手机重获新生的启示
·细节与品质
·小惠 调琴 能量三启示
·小雪豹给我的困惑和启示
·雪峰现在的心态
·这些成语也是天启(一)
·妈妈是女儿儿子是爸——《天启篇》
·这些成语也是天启(二)
·这些字词在告诉我们什么
【智慧篇】
·【智慧篇】答复国际哲学团体联合会主席提出的四个问题/雪峰
·是我们自己出卖了自己的自由
·It was We who Sold our Own Liberty
·《智慧篇》前  言
·一、石头渡河
·二、我的六个小时上哪去了
·是人应当思考的问题
·三、空、灵、秀
·四、务虚与务实
·五、人的仇敌会是自己家里的人
·五、人的仇敌会是自己家里的人
·六、仇人即是恩人--还债之道
·七、空间与仇恨
·八、信即真理,爱即生命。
·九、忙什么呢
·十、孕育时间越长,果实越香。
·十一、给生命增值
·十二、健康的秘诀
·十三、谁错了
·十四、不要打搅,乐就在其中
·十五、客观世界是主观意识的反映
·十六、突破围墙意识
·十七:天人合一同频共振
·十八、走出绝望
·十九、人生的参照系和坐标系
·二十、相生相克保持平衡
·环境造就仙佛
·二十一、破坏与创造
·二十二、两条平行线相交于一点
·二十三、获取无穷无尽能量的奥秘
·二十四、人生的三大追求
·二十五、表象与本质
·二十六、给自己的人生定位
·二十七、饮食奥秘
·二十八、知晓来生益处多
·二十九、无悔人生
·三十、灵性人生
·人生是一场幻象
·三十、灵性人生
·三十一、长不大的婴儿
·三十二、绝利一源,用师十倍
·三十三、黑洞中的太阳
·三十四、观妙观徼
·用血泪铺洒一条天国之路
·三十五、觉悟
·三十六、随性而动
·三十七、人有远虑 必有近烦
·三十八、把地球撬起来
·明道若昧 进道若退--《智慧篇》三十九
·三十四、观妙观徼
·四十、最高级的交流方式
·四十一、伊朗核危机的实质
·四十二、永远只做简单事
·四十三、寻求最佳组合
·四十四、莫为目标苦己身
·四十五、偶然是必然链条上的环节
·四十五(续一)、巧合是偶然的吗
·四十五(续二)、从必然王国走向自由王国
·四十五续三、万事皆必然 唯我逍遥行
·四十五续三、万事皆必然 唯我逍遥行
·四十五续三、万事皆必然 唯我逍遥行
·四十六、未曾用的药品是最好的药品
·诸法有我--《智慧篇》四十七
·诸法有我--《智慧篇》四十七
·诸行有常--《智慧篇》四十八
·人生的三大财富--《智慧篇》四十九
·有之以为利 无之以为用-《智慧篇》之五十
·用之不可见 见之不可用《智慧篇》之五十一
·避免小负荷能量的长期冲击--《智慧篇》之五十二
·生命的寄托--《智慧篇》之五十三
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Family will gradually disappear: On Lifechanyuan era (5)

   家庭将逐渐消失:论生命禅院时代五

   

   

   

   Family will gradually disappear: On Lifechanyuan era (5)

   

   

   

   浑沌草

   

   

   

   Deiform celestial

   

   

   序

   

   Preface

   

   一个事物是否完美,取决于其结构特征,一个人是否英俊美丽,由其生命的结构决定,结构有缺陷,其事物必然呈现出病态,其人必然丑陋。一个人是否有病,只要化验他身体的一个细胞即可得到答案。家庭是构成人类社会结构的细胞,如果人类社会不理想,我们是否应该考虑家庭这个细胞带有先天性病毒?

   

   Whether something is perfect or not depends on its structural feature; whether someone is handsome or beautiful depends on his/her life structure; if there is defect in its structure, the thing is bound to present morbidity, the person is bound to be ugly. We can know whether a man is sick by testing a cell of his body. Family is the cell in constituting the human society structure. We should have no way but think the family is carried with the congenital virus if the current human society is unsatisfactory.

   

   离婚率不断在上升,中国社科院的一份报告指出,2002年北京结婚76136对,离婚38756对,离婚率高达50.90%,近年来美国的离婚率一直维持在50%以上,西欧各国均在40%左右, 韩国、日本、香港、台湾,均在40%左右,泰国60%,印度的离婚率如何呢?有报道说在有着"印度硅谷"之称的班加罗尔,女软件工程师杜塔就表示,在她们班一共18名同学当中,毕业3年后还有5个人没有结婚,而另外13个人里已经有8个又都离了婚。"我们会经常在一起聚一聚,大家都觉得,一个人的日子也很好。"

   

   Divorce rate is continually rising: a report of Chinese Academy of Social Sciences pointed out that the divorce rate of Beijing in 2002 was 50.90% with 76,136 pairs got married and 38,756 pairs divorced. In recent years, the divorce rate of U.S. always kept above 50%; the Western Europe countries all kept about 40%; Republic of Korea, Japan, Hong Kong and Taiwan all kept about 40%; Thailand was 60%. Then, how about the divorce rate of India? In the Bangalore, the silicon valley of India, Dutta, a female software engineer, said among her eighteen classmates there were five still unmarried, and in the rest thirteen married students, eight had divorced. "We see each other sometimes, and we think that it is fine to be alone."

   

   家庭怎么啦?

   

   What is wrong with family?

   

   家庭的弊端

   

   The drawback of family

   

   一个人长期患病,或天生残疾,或中途夭折,家庭所有成员,尤其是父母、子女、配偶将终生悲苦不幸,赡养父母或丧葬压得许多人喘不过气来,子女的学业、工作、成家立业使许多父母倍受煎熬,结婚证好似卖身契,男女一旦结婚,就出卖了自己独立的个性和自由,进了一扇门,就同时关闭了所有其他的门,配偶性格有怪癖,精神上有障碍,生理上有缺陷,心灵很丑陋,就得忍受,男人都怕戴"绿帽子",女人都怕男人朝三暮四,结婚后的男女一辈子心惊胆颤,哑巴吃黄连,有苦说不出,都希望配偶是仅供照亮自己的手电筒。一个朝代的暴力更替主要原因在于"家天下","一人得道,鸡犬升天,"一人获罪,株连九族,普天之下,莫非皇帝家族的疆土,其他人,包括大臣和公务员,都是皇家的打工仔。有一个现象,要想捞取好处,只要攻破总理、部长、省长、县长家庭成员,特别是其配偶,这些"长"们就可以不显山不露水地为你办事,在其权限范围内充分地体现着家族的势力和利益。历代的贪官污吏为什么前赴后继?为何要贪污几十万、几百万、几千万、甚至几亿都不够?其主要原因是为他的家庭考虑,要光宗耀祖,要为子孙后代创建"千秋大业",如果没有家庭,以上的弊端会自行消失。

   

   If one member of a family has long-term illness or congenital disability or dies on the vine, all family members especially parents, sons, daughters and spouse will fall into sorrow and misfortune for their whole life. Many people are pressed almost out of breath by funeral and supporting their parents; many parents are tortured by the academic career of children, work, marriage and career; many people forfeit their independent personality and freedom after they get married. Marriage is just like a door, and once you step into it, this means that you have shut all the other doors; if your partner is eccentric in character, disturbed in mind, defective in physiology or ugly in soul, you can do nothing but to endure; all husbands are afraid that their wives cheat on them, similarly all wives are afraid that their husbands cheat on them too; as a result, all the married men and women will live in fear for their whole life in miserable and they all hope their partners are the flashlights which can only lighten himself or herself. The primary cause for the violence alternation of different dynasties lies in the "family first": if one receives a high position in the government, all his relatives and followers will get promotion after him; otherwise, if one commits a crime, the whole clan of him will be implicated; under the sky, all the territory belongs to the king; everyone including ministers and officials are all the servants of the king. There is a common phenomenon: if one wants to fish for benefits, one needs to break through the family members of prime minister, minister, stadholder and county magistrate, especially their spouse; in this way, these officials will secretly work for you and offer you with the power and benefits of their families in the scope of their authorities. Why did the malfeasants in different ages take place one after another? Why were they being endless greedy? Its primary cause is that they attach too much importance on their families, want to make their ancestors illustrious and want to establish an eternal lasting enterprise for their descendants. Without family, all these drawbacks will disappear automatically.

(2011/12/11 发表)

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