Lifechanyuan's view point on love and sex is base on the conformation of physiological structure and the program of spirit consolation, as well as the demanding of the life in Heaven. It is helpful to self-refine and self-improve and finally helpful to get into the thousand-year world, the ten-thousand-year world, the Elysium world and the Celestial Islands Continent.
The Greatest Creator creates everything-from sunshine, air, water, salt, mountains and rivers, vegetations and insects, beasts and flyers to human being's five viscera and six entrails, four limbs and hair, etc. All of these are the Greatest Creator's grace and love to human beings. To enjoy the bestow of the Greatest Creator is to love the Greatest Creator; only those who understand this principle and enjoy the Greatest Creator's love can be thankful for the Greatest Creator and can follow the way of the Greatest Creator.
What is the most wonderful thing in your life? What is the most excited and unforgettable thing in your life? It is the love and sex.
How do you feel about your first love? How do you feel when you are passionately in love? How do you feel when you are hugged by the opposite sex for the first time? How do you feel when you have sexual life and acquire climax for the first time? How do you feel when you think of somebody? How do you feel when you are in sorrowful and suffering state and the one you love come on your side? "Couple a day, love forever", Why people are willing to die for love? Why people would risk being rejected and die for sex? It is very easy for people who are physical and psychological healthy to feel the beauty and wonderfulness from sex and love.
The experts have written lots of articles and books about the structure and the function of phallic and genital, and also have written countless articles and books about sexual psychology and the influence that the love and sex bring to human being's spirit and mental. Never mind if you haven't read those, at least most of people have experienced it, isn't it wonderful? But you do feel the ecstasy that the love and sex bring to your body and mind, right?
Love and sex are gracious gift the Greatest Creator bestows to humankinds, are most precious experience and enjoyment. It fits the Greatest Creator's will to enjoy fully the love life and sexual life; it is not shameful and immoral but fair and open; it is the most wonderful wish that worth dreaming and pursuing.
For thousands of years, humankinds' attitude toward love and sex is ambiguous and surreptitious; pretentious and stealthy, sanctimonious which resulted lots of unjust cases; it also sets hedges and obstacles. Although the reasons are complicated and multidimensional, but mainly are as follow:
In order to keep society stable, the authority has to sacrifice and depress humanity;
1. In order to protect the mask of the Sages, survivals of the feudal society enhance the love and sex into the degree of moral and frighten the kind-hearted people.
2. Like giving up eating for fear of choking, people who experience bitter taste on love and sex not only themselves go to the dead end, but also instigate common people to get rid of love and sex.
3. In order to deceive the public, the people with power who enjoy the love and sex thoroughly try every means to spread fallacy and lie to cover up reality; just like people find a gold mine and afraid of losing exclusive right.
4. Those talking about the sour grapes are unable to acquire the love and sex themselves but also desperately keep others from acquiring love and sex.
5. Since people with unhealthy physiology and psychology can't enjoy normal love and sex so they demote love and sex unconsciously.
6. Private ownership makes trouble; because of being afraid of losing partner and hurting children, they stretch the truth and set lots of obstacles.
9. What we can learn from Lifechanyuan's values are those: everyone is independent, everyone has his own consciousness; no one can impose his consciousness to other people and deprive other people's right to enjoy love and sex; as long as they are consensual and don't violate ethics and not harmful to public civilization and order, they can do as they wish. You can enjoy unmarried life, but you have no right to restrict other people to get married; you can enjoy monogamy, but you have no right to oppose polygamy or polyandry; you can enjoy getting married, but this can't be reason that you oppose others to get married. The patterns of love and sex are colorful and multifarious, which pattern you choose is your personal affair; everyone has right to choose the best way for himself.